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Live Your Dreams

DarrelL CEU 0116My heart aches for the many families who have lost children and loved ones to senseless violence perpetrated by criminals, persons with mental health issues, family members and the police. My heart and mind register concern regarding the small world view of some gun owners, lobbyists, and the NRA when they speak as if they have the right to measure the profits of their sales and coffers against the human rights and dreams of those beleaguered by their guns – as if the 2nd amendment has a stronger right than the right to live and let live.

On the recent anniversary of the celebration of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., I was moved to think about the dreams of these victims and families of those whose lives have been taken by violence and despair. The realization that rests in my spirit is that dreams die because their life blood is spilled on far too many streets, too many floors of emergency rooms, down the drains of hopelessness and despair. As I reflect on these lost lives and those dreams that have been lost, I ask myself where the dream Dr. King spoke of has gone (www.aspenideas.org/I-Have-A-Dream). This question was called to mind by a poem authored by the renowned poet and writer, Langston Hughes, called “A Dream Deferred:”

What happens to a dream deferred? Does it dry up like a raisin in the sun, or fester like a sore and then run? Does it stink like rotten meat? Or crust and sugar like syrupy sweet? Maybe it just sags like a heavy load or does it explode?

The response to this dire question was answered in a sermon preached on a recent Sunday morning by my pastor Bishop Walter Scott Thomas Sr. He addressed a vital question: Where are the dream nurturers? – people who push you and stand behind you to motivate, encourage and strengthen you as your pursue the vibrant dreams which have been the foundation of our society and will continue to build individual lives? If we are lured into the malaise of the current societal situation, we might think we have more dream killers than dream nurturers, more oppressors than supporters, people who measure us by how we look, where we come from, and the color of our skin. This can cause us ask ourselves: how far have we really come, and where are we heading?

These questions could seem all the more perplexing  given the political polarization we find so prevalent in our day. However, I refuse to  allow cynicism to overcome my optimism and faith – faith  which is based on just how far prayer has brought us as a people, all the while facing the challenges of multiple levels of systemic racism, classism, sexism and other isms. Prayer keeps hope alive and sustains life; prayer creates hope and helps to buoy faith.

This is not the time to give in to divisive politics and fear, or to lobbyists with deep pockets. This is the time to enter the prayer rooms of faith and lift up this country and its leaders, asking for direction and guidance such that dreams are no longer deferred, but flourish for everyone. For a simple time of refreshment, take some time to view an example of a dream realized (http://www.creationsummit.com/video/Susan-Boyle.htm), and watch the movie War Room, which demonstrates in a real way how significant and sustaining prayer is and continues to be.

Assistant Professor Linda P. Darrell, PhD has worked, guided by faith (I John 4:21),  as a licensed clinical certified social worker for over 30 years, and teaches in the School of Social Work at Morgan State University in Baltimore, MD. Linda has been a member of NACSW since 2014.

7 thoughts on “Live Your Dreams

  1. Linda, Thank you for your beautiful statement and reminder that all of us can and should be supporters of these dreams.

  2. I love the thought of dream nurturers! That is what Christian social workers need to be all about.
    Thanks for your great post!

  3. Thank you both for your encouraging comments. Rene you are so right, social workers need to see themselves as Dream Nurturers as we work to support so many whose dreams are so fragile

  4. That was a beautiful piece. I, too, am a Christian social worker. Reading this was a bittersweet experience, for in 2013 my beloved granddaughter, Michelle, was, at age 17, brutally murdered by an Army sergeant who had recruited her. He was an unstable man with a gun. I have published her story and spoken out on gun control. At Heeding God's Call, I spoke at one of their memorials, where the church yard was filled with crosses, each bearing a t-shirt with the name of a person who had died from a gun shot wound in the previous year. Michelle's was one of those tee shirts. Looking at the sea of shirts, it was hard to speak without weeping. Each of those shirts spoke to another family's heartbreak. When will it ever stop? It is voices like yours that give hope. Thank you for being there.

  5. I appreciate this post, Dr. Darrell, and I thank you for writing it. I'm a fan of a singing group, Sweet Honey in the Rock. Their song, We Are, contains the following lyrics. "We are are grandmothers prayers, We are our grandfather's dreamings . . . " Each human being not only has a dream, but is a dream come true, and it makes me angry to see these dreams being gunned down. I am a praying Christian and I also believe in political & community engagement to turn things around. Faith without works is dead.

  6. Both Dr. Darrell's comments and the responses are so very important for us as Christian Social Workers and those who desire to faithfully follow the leadership of our Lord and to "do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly with our God." Maintaining hope and being dream nurturers is a gift that we can give to our world. May God enable us to do this in our daily lives and in our service.

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